Does it ever frustrate you that people around you don’t seem to take responsibility for their actions and are just blaming you or someone else for their mistakes? It sure ticks me off! I do believe we have a way of drawing certain people into our lives without meaning to. Whether this is with energies or purely body language I don’t know, but such a massive life lesson I learnt is – If You Blame Yourself, Then Other People Will Too! So what the hell is going on here?
My retreats attract a mixture of individuals; the common theme is the desire for personal development and a nurturing break in the sun without going into total isolation or the other extreme of booze, babes and busy. I like to think I have created the right mix of relaxation and socialising.
Are there times when you are anxious without even knowing why? Maybe there’s more to do than there are hours in the day, you continually race around in circles and can’t imagine how to get out of the hole you find yourself in. Maybe there are things in your life that don’t suit you anymore, you don’t know how to get out of them and have no clue what you would want instead even if you did!
Gosh only last month talking about this year of transformation - and yes the more we put our intentions out there the more we attract in what we are telling ourselves and others is the truth of our lives. And here I am tired from having overdone things yet again, uncomfortable through not looking after myself enough and yet grateful that I can turn within and remind myself - I am not my hangover, my human-doing or any of the multitudinous small stories and negative BS I tell myself about me.